So what happens when you and your partner are left alone in the evenings? Do you retreat to your respective seats and electronic devices only to spend the evening together and yet alone? Are you a TV couple, meaning that when the chores are done and the kids in bed you spend your time watching TV together. Or does one of you clean and prepare for the next day while the other plays video games?
If any of these sound like your relationship and you’re looking to get out of the rut and spend more quality time together, let’s discuss a new option. Playing games.
Playing games are a good way to bring you and your partner together in an exhilarating and stimulating manner. It is often been said that your brain is your largest sex organ, so if you get your brain working on something with your partner, isn’t that the best foreplay?
Can’t think of any games to play with your partner. Let me help you out a bit.
Romeo is a bit of an active/outdoor person, so we’ve taken to playing frisbee in the evenings now that the weather is nice. Neither one of us is particularly talented in sports, but frisbee we can handle. It gets us outside (Romeo says one point in its favor) and active (point two). But to really get his blood pumping I’ve taken it up a notch by playing half naked (game, set, match) :).
Let’s take one of your favorite games from childhood and make it dirty, Uno. There are two different ways we’ve played this one and made it more adult. First you can add a “strip” element to it, or really with any game that has multiple rounds and a specific winner/loser to each round. Whomever the loser is of the round has to remove an item of clothing. The ultimate loser of the game is the first one to be completely naked. But are you really losing?
The second way to play is with alcohol. The loser of the round has to take a shot. The only difference between this and the “strip” version is that it’s an arbitrary decision as to when the stop the game. Although drink enough and I’m sure you’ve forgotten all about winners/losers and have moved on to a sexier pasttime.
Our final suggestion is Twister. Do I really have to explain how Twister can be foreplay? If you don’t have this game in your house, get it now!
What “sexy” games have you been playing lately? I’d love to hear some new ideas.